tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post4187619519802457053..comments2023-08-09T08:41:22.500-07:00Comments on You wouldn't even make an omelette with stale eggs!: Always on my mindKChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08989150563618588708noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-18956719980762434322010-11-18T17:24:31.234-08:002010-11-18T17:24:31.234-08:00hi!
okay first of all, from reading your post earl...hi!<br />okay first of all, from reading your post earlier this week it is clear that that woman is nutty. be glad she doesn't talk to you more and keep your distance :)<br /><br />secondly, no shit her pregnancy isn't about you, but YOUR feelings are. i have found that i seriously need to tell T what i want from him sometimes. they are totally clueless in matters of the heart. i think he is being a bit weird about the whole process though. *shrug* is he trying not to get your hopes up? so he doesn't have to deal with it if it doesn't work? all i can say is he is your husband and he needs to support you and love you. maybe you need to tell him how he can do that. and he may not even need to know how ovulation works, but he needs to find out what a follicle is :)<br /><br />third, my father is the same way with food. he will make a big meal (only my sister lives home and rarely eats there) and eat it until it's gone. im glad T isn't that way but T is kinda far the other way. ill try to plan a meal and he won't "feel like" that. oh, and he lives to throw shit away. i swear, if something looks like clutter, even if it is a brand new full box of something, he will ask me if he can throw it out! grr!<br /><br />anyway sorry to hijack your comments...i hope you feel better soon and your UTI will be out of here before you know it, don't worry.<br />xoxo<br />lisbibchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13696528943928321710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-22701831082732951212010-11-18T11:05:40.794-08:002010-11-18T11:05:40.794-08:00seriously I think sometimes fertiles rule the worl...seriously I think sometimes fertiles rule the world...it's understandable to be jealous. We are all here for you. *hugs*Tilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02287774099947731664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-76381759832325847442010-11-18T03:18:28.566-08:002010-11-18T03:18:28.566-08:00Dang fertile jealousy, I wish I didn't suffer ...Dang fertile jealousy, I wish I didn't suffer from it, but we all do! Again the only person it hurts is ourselves. But it's totally understandable, actually expected. <br />People cope in different ways. Try and remember your on the same team. One day this will be distant memory. :) And you hubby will annoy you with something new!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-54235828465318238562010-11-17T17:48:36.998-08:002010-11-17T17:48:36.998-08:00Your response post on my blog made me laugh! I gu...Your response post on my blog made me laugh! I guess I should appreciate what I have more. I guess I thought more men dealing with IF would take some initiative and learn more about our bodies. At least you can laugh about it!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03543480612775718706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-18060203113253073242010-11-17T17:42:50.029-08:002010-11-17T17:42:50.029-08:00Wow your hubby sounds a lot like mine. I'm sa...Wow your hubby sounds a lot like mine. I'm sad and mopy about not being pregnant after being an entire week late and he hasn't even tried to figure out wtf is wrong with me. Dispite me not sleeping all night. Then I tell him and he says "well your body is getting better." Umm yea a whole week late is not better asshole. I just want him to say it sucks and feel sorry and feel like shit for 5 minutes with me. But nope his life is completely unchanged and everything is great. Blah.<br /><br />Anyways, thanks for leaving a comment. This is the first time I've seen you blog and you are funny ;)! I hope things get better. Btw I would feel the same way about your friend who didn't tell you she was pregnant. And my hubby would have had the same reaction and pissed me off too. =(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-25923436801437495562010-11-17T17:35:23.201-08:002010-11-17T17:35:23.201-08:00Oh god your day totally blows. I can't even i...Oh god your day totally blows. I can't even imagine what it would feel like to be so alone in this process. Your husband needs to wake up and realize that you need a lot more support than he is offering. He should know what a follicle is, he should know way more about the female body than most men because you guys have a problem and he should be there with you experiencing it instead of remaining blissfully ignorant. Sorry for the rant but that just really gets to me. Would he be open to reading a book? My husband read "How to make love to a plastic cup" and it gave him strategies on how to deal with me and my crazy hormones and it taught him all about my system. Secondly I totally get the need to just hear a quick, yeah it blows that that girl didn't tell you she was pregnant.. I hope that tomorrow is much much better than today for you!!!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03543480612775718706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-54938751473874152142010-11-17T07:59:17.744-08:002010-11-17T07:59:17.744-08:00Oh man, it must be the week for husbands to act li...Oh man, it must be the week for husbands to act like this. After 4 years, I thought my husband was turning the corner on his understanding what it feels like to hear another announcement. We're recently back to square one and he made it clear that he doesn't want to hear the "whining" anymore because no doctor told me I can't have babies, so not to freak out until someone tells us that. Seriously. Hugs to you. I get it.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02925045129791741306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135987533676549283.post-21164058337534599342010-11-17T05:21:59.081-08:002010-11-17T05:21:59.081-08:00I tried to post this earlier and blogger ate my co...I tried to post this earlier and blogger ate my comment so here is take 2:<br />First of all, it is every IF'ers right to feel angry/ jealous at fertile woman. Perhaps it is irrational but it is part of the process. We all do it!!<br />Second, do not expect your husband to get it b/c he just won't. Mine is finally catching on but it took him 4 years to get there and half the time I think he is just humoring me by saying what I want to hear. We understand and totally get it though so feel free to vent here. We are here for you.cdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.com